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Proactive vs Reactive
Each and every day holds ample opportunities to be either proactive or
reactive. Ever had your sister constantly bug you until you want to scream? How about one
of those bad drivers who are going to make you late for work? I bet you just want to put your head out the window and
swear like crazy at the driver. Maybe, even, you sit in class or with a group of friends and don't say anything
or be yourself. Well, those are very real possibilities. But, are they the best ones? Hopefully, you answered
no. There are a plethora of possibilities that will not only make the situation better, but your attitude as well.
Let's look at some of those now. >>>
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Possibility #1: It's your first day of Grade 10. This year you have decided
to take Biology. You don't know who the teacher is, but have heard from your friends that she is one of the worst teachers
in the school. So, upon entering the class, you immediately tune her out and say "I'm never going to learn a single
thing from her." Well, you could take that option. Or, you could simply get to know her. Take initiative
and talk to her. Maybe give her some suggestions or show her your knowledge. You are responsible to learn from
her. She's not responsible to force you to learn. Take initiative. Be proactive.
Possibility #2: It's that time again. Chore time. You mom wants you
to take out the trash, do the dishes, and once again, clean your room. You just can't handle it anymore. You wish
for once that you wouldn't have to do the chores. Did you see that? I used the words "have to". Saying that
you have to do something only makes you miserable and forces you to feel sorry for yourself. Rather than get
all upset, why not use the words "choose to". Try it. Using choose to now forces you to do it for you
personally, rather than feeling like someone's forcing you to do the chores. It's up to you to make the best of a situation,
not up to the chores to be fun. Try it. Be proactive.
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